5 things never to do if you want a happy relationship

One of the sweetest things in life is to love and be loved. A happy relationship makes you look forward to each day and makes the stress we encounter in other aspects of our life seem non - existent. We can however, ruin this sweetness when we indulge in certain behaviors that I consider a no-no for any relationship that wants to preserve it's sweet taste.
Here are the 5 things to avoid:

Comparing your lover with another person. This is a killer of love. No one likes being compared to someone else. If you think that you will get your husband to do something for you by telling him how his friend did same thing for his wife or worse still, how your ex did same thing for you then you need to think again. This will only worsen things and turn the relationship soar rather than getting things done.

Not putting effort in your relatinship. 
Relationship is like an empty box, what you put inside is what you get back. If you fail to put beautiful things inside, don't expect to have a happy relationship. If you know what you did to get your partner, do same to keep them happy. It's that simple. Donot stop looking after yourself too. It is very important. Although that doesn't mean you have to starve yourself to be skinny, 'the TV image of being beautiful'. Just try to keep fit and be amazing for your lover.

Being disrepectful. You cannot claim to love someone without respecting them. If your husband annoyed you, do not give him attitude as a way of expressing your anger. Men interpret this as disrespect. Rather, approach him at the right time and talk things through with him. You can never go wrong when you use this method.

Being selfish. No relationship can be sustained without sacrifice. This tells your partner that 'you care'. Always consider your lover's programme and make adjustments where necessary for the smooth running of the relationship.

Cheating. Am I supposed to tell anyone about this one too? Well, let me say something. Cheating is bad, infact, evil. It makes your partner feel worthless and unloved. It affects the person drastically including their confidence. Please, do not listen to anyone who makes you think that it's ok to cheat because it's not! If you can put yourself at the other end perhaps, you won't be looking for any justification. Even if your partner cheats on you, don't pay back by cheating too.

Unhappy relationship comes with a lot of stress which makes you age quicker and I don't want to see you at that end.

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